Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
@vanessaandxanderHi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day. Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before! Get our weekly emails by signing up at: https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe/
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Overview
- Subscribers
- 191KTop 32%
- Avg views
- 10.1KTop 58%
- Median views
- 7.2KTop 75%
- Views per subscriber
- 4%Top 73%
- Engagement rate
- 1.8%Top 86%
- Past sponsors
- 9+





- Last published
- 9d ago
- Est. Rate $
- Reveal
- Audience Score
- 35by Scout
- Sponsor Score
- 83by Scout
Videos
- Quince1:01:00E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex7.6K views · 9d ago
- Cure Hydration51:21E278: How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut: Your 4-Week Plan5.2K views · 16d ago
- Cozy Earth51:07E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers12.3K views · 23d ago
- Quince48:46E276: How do you even turn your partner on?13.2K views · 1mo ago
- Cozy Earth49:13E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers10.5K views · 1mo ago
- Cure Hydration1:05:07E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This10K views · 1mo ago
- Cozy Earth59:00E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood12.4K views · 1mo ago
- Quince48:43E271: The Real Reason You Can't "Let Go" in Bed6.4K views · 2mo ago
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